Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox®

Unboxing Late Blooming Dating with Kids

Keywords:
 
coming out, self-acceptance, relationships, parenting, blended families, LGBTQ+, dating, expectations, communication, friendship
 
Summary:
 
In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and her friend Kim discuss their journeys of coming out later in life, the complexities of relationships and parenting, and the importance of self-acceptance. They share personal stories about navigating love, expectations, and the challenges of blended families, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding in relationships. Their candid conversation highlights the significance of friendship and support in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance.
 
Takeaways:
Coming out is a personal journey that varies for everyone.
Self-acceptance is crucial for living authentically.
Relationships can be complicated, especially with children involved.
Expectations in dating can lead to misunderstandings.
Open communication is key to successful relationships.
Friendship provides essential support during challenging times.
Past experiences shape our present relationship choices.
It's okay to prioritize personal needs in relationships.
Blended families require patience and understanding.
Navigating love and family dynamics is a continuous process.
Are you coming out later in life and looking for community, exploration and support? Check out the Unbox Your Sexuality® programs at https://www.unboxyoursexuality.com
 
Ready to Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox on the podcast? Email Samantha at samantha@unboxyoursexuality.com
 

Unboxing Gender with El

Keywords:
 
gender identity, gender expression, personal growth, femininity, queer experiences, self-discovery, societal expectations, emotional healing, LGBTQ+, genderqueer, non-binary, gender-fluid
 
Summary:
 
In this episode, Samantha Fox and El Murray engage in a deep conversation about gender identity, personal experiences, and the journey of self-discovery. They explore the complexities of gender expression, societal expectations, and the emotional landscape surrounding these topics. El shares their personal journey of navigating gender, the impact of family and societal pressures, and the joy of embracing their authentic self. The discussion highlights the importance of compassion, healing, and the celebration of individuality in the context of gender identity.
 
Takeaways:
Gender is a unique experience for each individual.
Childhood experiences can shape our understanding of gender.
Societal expectations often pressure individuals to conform.
Navigating professional environments can challenge personal expression.
Family dynamics play a significant role in gender identity.
Self-discovery is a continuous journey that evolves over time.
Embracing one's authentic self can lead to joy and fulfillment.
Grief can accompany the process of understanding one's gender identity.
Celebrating personal growth is essential in the journey of self-acceptance.
Creating space for experimentation in gender expression is vital.
For those of you interested in the Program El mentions in this episode, you can find more information here....Unbox Your Sexuality: A Sexuality Liberation Program 
 
Are you a bisexual woman who is in a hetero-passing monogamous relationship and wish you had someplace safe to talk about your bisexuality? Learn more about THE BI LIFE and should you have any questions for me, you can reach me at samantha@unboxyoursexuality.com
 
Thanks for being here!! 
 

A Life-Long Lesbian's Journey to Self Love with Michele Flamer-Powell

Keywords:
relationships, identity, breakups, motherhood, family dynamics, love, healing, self-discovery, validation, twin flames
Summary:
In this conversation, Michele shares her journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the complexities of love and motherhood. From coming out and navigating breakups to the challenges of starting a family, Michele reflects on her experiences and the lessons learned along the way. The discussion also touches on the importance of validation in friendships and the spiritual journey of finding true love and connection.
Takeaways:
Michele realized her sexual identity through experiences with her college softball team.
The relationship with Eve was profound and taught Michele a lot about love and family.
Michele prioritized her desire to become a mother, leading to a difficult breakup with Eve.
The journey of motherhood is filled with challenges, especially for same-sex couples.
Michele's relationship with Carrie was marked by red flags that she initially overlooked.
Healing and self-discovery are ongoing processes that require intentionality and effort.
Validation in friendships is crucial for emotional support and growth.
Michele's spiritual journey led her to understand the concept of twin flames and soulmates.
The importance of being authentic and true to oneself in relationships.
It's never too late to pursue happiness and make changes in life.
 
The Bi Life, a Community for bisexual women in hetero-passing monogamous relationships opens its doors on 7/1/25. Click ⁠HERE⁠ to learn more!
 
The Trauma Syndrome, by Tia Dayton is the book we refer to in this episode. Its a must read for anyone who grew up in a highly dysfunctional family, with addiction or mental illness, or is partnered with someone who grew up in this type of family.

Celebrating Bisexuality with Heidi Savell

Keywords:
 
bisexuality, polyamory, relationships, identity, community, internalized homophobia, queer, support, self-discovery, belonging
 
Summary:
 
In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Heidi Savell explore the complexities of bisexuality, relationships, and identity. They discuss their personal experiences with internalized homophobia, the journey of self-discovery, and the challenges of navigating relationships in a heteronormative society. The conversation highlights the importance of community, support, and celebrating one's identity, especially for those who identify as bisexual and are in monogamous relationships. They also touch on the significance of professional guidance when opening up relationships and the need for spaces where bisexual individuals can feel accepted and understood.
 
Takeaways:
 
Heidi's early experiences with bisexuality began in her teens.
Internalized homophobia can manifest early in life.
Heidi's journey of self-discovery included dating both men and women.
Compulsory heterosexuality influenced Heidi's marriage decisions.
Opening up relationships can reveal underlying issues.
Authenticity in relationships is crucial for personal happiness.
Cis men often dominate dating dynamics, affecting women's desires.
Creating space for personal desires is essential in relationships.
Community support is vital for those navigating bisexuality.
Click here to learn more about The Bi Life , A Community for Bisexual Women in Hetero Monogamous Relationships
Find Heidi on IG @steadypolyamory and the program she runs for those new to ENM Steady Your Poly Wobbles

Unboxing 'Expectation'

Keywords:
 
expectations, self-acceptance, relationships, communication, personal growth, societal norms, parental influence, intimacy, self-exploration, emotional landscape
 
Summary:
 
In this conversation, Samantha Fox explores the concept of expectations, particularly how they shape our identities and relationships. She shares her personal journey of grappling with parental expectations and societal norms, leading to an 'allergic reaction' to expectations. The discussion emphasizes the importance of communication in relationships, highlighting how unspoken expectations can create distance and disappointment. Fox encourages listeners to engage in self-exploration and to express their needs and desires openly, rather than imposing expectations on others.
 
Takeaways:
Expectation can create a burden that weighs heavily on individuals.
Parental expectations can shape our paths in life, often leading to misalignment with our true selves.
Breaking free from societal norms can be a liberating experience.
Expectations in relationships can lead to misunderstandings and disappointment.
Clear communication is essential to avoid the pitfalls of unspoken expectations.
Self-exploration is key to understanding our own expectations and needs.
Expectations can distance us from intimacy in relationships.
We should not assume others know our expectations; communication is vital.
Understanding the narrative behind our expectations can lead to personal growth.
Expressing needs and desires openly fosters healthier relationships.
The Bi Life, a Community for women who identify as bisexual and are in hetero monogamous relationships with men...Learn more here... https://www.unboxyoursexuality.com/bi-life
 
Ready to join me for chat on the show? Apply here! 
https://unboxyoursexuality.com/podcast-register
 
 

The Grass IS Greener on the Other Side

Keywords:
 
sexuality, self-acceptance, LGBTQ, coming out, therapy, relationships, authenticity, personal growth, visibility, community
 
Summary:
 
In this episode of Unbox Yourself, Samantha Fox interviews Wendy Faith, a former participant in Unbox Your Sexuality®: A 12-week Sexuality Liberation Program.
 
Wendy shares her transformative journey of self-discovery after coming out later in life. Wendy discusses her experiences with betrayal, therapy, and the importance of embracing authenticity. She reflects on the challenges of navigating fears as a late bloomer about new relationships, the healing power of community, and the significance of visibility in both personal and professional realms.
 
Wendy's story serves as an inspiring reminder of the beauty that comes from living one's truth and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance.
 
Takeaways
Wendy shares her journey of self-discovery after years of living in a heterosexual marriage.
The importance of therapy in unpacking past traumas and embracing one's true identity.
Grief is a natural part of the journey towards authenticity and self-acceptance.
Wendy's experience highlights the challenges of coming out later in life.
The significance of finding a supportive community during the transition.
Navigating new relationships can be both exciting and intimidating for those coming out later.
The UYS program provided Wendy with tools to explore her sexuality and build confidence.
Visibility in business is crucial for LGBTQ individuals, especially those overcoming past traumas.
Wendy emphasizes the importance of authenticity over perfectionism in personal and professional life.
The journey of self-acceptance is ongoing and requires patience and self-compassion.
Are you ready to Unbox Your Sexuality®? Learn more about the 12 Week Sexuality Liberation Program https://www.unboxyoursexuality.com/cohort
 
Is there something gnawing at you that you would like to talk with Samantha about? All you need to do is apply! You can do so here...
https://unboxyoursexuality.com/podcast-register
 
Learn more about Wendy Faith...
 
Wendy Faith is a creative business coach and late-in-life lesbian who helps LGBTQ+ entrepreneurs unfreeze, unmask, and grow their revenue—without burning out or selling out. After a lifetime of navigating patriarchy, parenting, publishing, politics, perfectionism, AND people-pleasing, then finally coming out at 54, she’s here to remind you that it’s never too late to build something bold, brilliant, and completely your own.
 
https://www.wendyfaith.com/
https://www.facebook.com/WendyFaithCoaching
https://www.instagram.com/wendyfaithcoaching/
https://www.tiktok.com/@wendy_faith
 

Unboxing Pleasure Toys

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Welcome to Season 2 of Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox®
 
Keywords
 
sexuality, self-discovery, pleasure, intimacy, sex toys, queer identity, relationships, vulnerability, double-sided dildo, self-acceptance
 
Summary
 
In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox delves into the journey of self-discovery and sexuality, exploring the importance of pleasure, intimacy, and the use of sex toys. She shares personal stories about her experiences with sexual exploration, the significance of breaking down societal norms, and the complexities of navigating queer identities. The conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability in intimacy and encourages listeners to embrace their desires without judgment.
 
Takeaways
Self-discovery is a lifelong journey that often begins with societal expectations.
Sexuality can be explored at any stage of life, regardless of past experiences.
Using sex toys can enhance personal pleasure and intimacy with partners.
It's important to communicate openly about desires and preferences in relationships.
Desiring penetration does not negate one's queer identity.
Pleasure should be prioritized over societal norms in sexual relationships.
Vulnerability is key to deepening intimacy with partners.
Exploring different sexual experiences can lead to greater self-acceptance.
There are many ways to experience pleasure beyond traditional methods.
Breaking down limiting narratives around sex can enhance personal and partner satisfaction.
As promised, this is the link to The Dollop Double Sided Dildo by Banana Split. https://bananasplitshop.com/products/dollop-bulb
 
Are you out of the closet but still in the house?
 
Join The Bi Life: A 6 month Community offering for bisexual women in hetero-monogamous reationships with men
 
This offering begins on July 1st and ends on December 31st, 2025. Grab your seat now! I can't wait to work with you! 
 
Want to chat with me? Sign up HERE to guest on the podcast and be as anonymous as feels right to you! 

Embracing Regrets:Parenting and Coming Out Later with Sogol

Keywords:
 
regrets, identity, coming out, relationships, self-discovery, co-parenting, emotional labor, healing, motherhood, sexuality
 
 
Summary:
 
This conversation explores the complexities of identity, relationships, and the journey of self-discovery, particularly for those who come out later in life. Sogol shares her experiences growing up in Iran, navigating her sexuality, and the challenges of co-parenting while embracing her identity as a lesbian. The discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging regrets, the emotional labor involved in relationships, and the necessity of creating space for grief and healing.
 
 
Takeaways:
Living life fully often comes with regrets.
Cultural background can shape one's understanding of identity.
Coming out is a personal journey that can be complex.
Relationships require emotional labor and self-awareness.
Cultural expectations can pressure individuals into certain life choices.
Self-acceptance is a crucial part of the journey.
Awakening to one's sexuality can happen at any stage in life.
Navigating co-parenting while exploring one's identity is challenging.
Grieving is a necessary process after a breakup.
Creating space for grief is essential for healing.

Unboxing "Committed" Relationships Later in Life

Keywords
 
self-discovery, relationships, sexuality, coming out, community, marriage, emotional intimacy, living together apart, personal growth, LGBTQ+
 
Summary
 
In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and Trish engage in a deep conversation about self-discovery, relationships, and the journey of coming out later in life. They explore the complexities of navigating relationships, the importance of being intentional about what one wants, and the challenges of emotional intimacy. Trish shares her personal journey of healing and growth after her first relationship with a woman, while Samantha reflects on her experiences with marriage and the concept of living apart together (LAT). The discussion also touches on the idea of lovers and the lessons learned from past relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in intimate connections.
 
Takeaways:
Self-discovery is a continuous journey.
Intentionality in relationships is crucial.
Understanding personal needs can prevent future heartache.
Marriage can carry emotional wounds that need healing.
Community is essential for expressing one's identity.
Living apart together can redefine relationship dynamics.
The concept of a lover can vary greatly between individuals.
Relationships can bring both joy and pain.
Learning from past relationships is vital for growth.
Every new relationship is a unique experience.
If you are looking for guidance as you question your sexuality, and are ready to do a deep dive into knowing and understanding yourself and your sexuality, learn more about UNBOX YOUR SEXUALITY®: A 12-week Sexuality Liberation Program HERE
 
Have questions about the program? Email Samantha@UnboxYourSexuality.com
 
Ready to Join Samantha and Unbox Yourself™ on the show?
Register at https://www.unboxyoursexuality.com 

When Your Exes Become Chosen Family

Keywords:
 
self-acceptance, coming out, relationships, late bloomers, long-distance love, personal growth, LGBTQ+ community, friendship, communication, emotional support
 
Summary:
 
In this episode of 'Unbox Yourself,' Samantha Fox and her friend and ex partner Stephanie discuss their experiences as late bloomers coming out later in life. They explore the complexities of navigating relationships, especially as parents, and the challenges of long-distance love. The conversation delves into personal growth, the importance of communication, and maintaining friendships with exes, emphasizing the need for honesty and self-reflection in relationships.
 
Takeaways:
Society often dictates how we should live and love.
Coming out later in life can feel like a second adolescence.
Navigating relationships as a late bloomer is complex.
Long-distance relationships have unique challenges and benefits.
Personal growth often comes from navigating difficult relationships.
Maintaining friendships with exes can be healthy and beneficial.
Communication is key in any relationship, especially with past partners.
Self-reflection is crucial when considering relationships with exes.
It's important to prioritize what is best for your children during transitions.
Building a chosen family can help fill the void left by lost connections.
Are you ready to Unbox Yourself™?
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