Celebrating Bisexuality with Heidi Savell

Keywords:

 

bisexuality, polyamory, relationships, identity, community, internalized homophobia, queer, support, self-discovery, belonging

 

Summary:

 

In this conversation, Samantha Fox and Heidi Savell explore the complexities of bisexuality, relationships, and identity. They discuss their personal experiences with internalized homophobia, the journey of self-discovery, and the challenges of navigating relationships in a heteronormative society. The conversation highlights the importance of community, support, and celebrating one's identity, especially for those who identify as bisexual and are in monogamous relationships. They also touch on the significance of professional guidance when opening up relationships and the need for spaces where bisexual individuals can feel accepted and understood.

 

Takeaways:

 

• Heidi's early experiences with bisexuality began in her teens.
• Internalized homophobia can manifest early in life.
• Heidi's journey of self-discovery included dating both men and women.
• Compulsory heterosexuality influenced Heidi's marriage decisions.
• Opening up relationships can reveal underlying issues.
• Authenticity in relationships is crucial for personal happiness.
• Cis men often dominate dating dynamics, affecting women's desires.
• Creating space for personal desires is essential in relationships.
• Community support is vital for those navigating bisexuality.

Click here to learn more about The Bi Life , A Community for Bisexual Women in Hetero Monogamous Relationships

Find Heidi on IG @steadypolyamory and the program she runs for those new to ENM Steady Your Poly Wobbles